Code of Conduct

Touch

• All touch includes consent from all people involved.
• Non-verbal cues are important for consent, and we use words when we need to add clarification.
• Anyone can stop or change anything at any time, without a reason and without apologizing.
• If you're not sure, stop and ask.

Non-sexual container

• No sexual touch. Clothes stay on. No contact with genitals, breasts, or buttocks. No grinding, no kissing.
• Arousal happens and it isn't shameful. Shift position or take a break. Don't make it someone else's problem, and don't comment on someone else's body.
• No propositioning anyone during the event. If you want to ask someone out, do it another day, off site.

The space

• Sober event. No alcohol or other substances before or during, including vaping and smoking anywhere on the property.
• No photos or video.
• Don't share the address. Don't share who you saw here.

Children

• Children stay in the childcare space. They do not enter the dance floor, cuddle space, or fire pit.
• No adult is ever alone with a child. Childcare is staffed by two adults at all times.
• If you brought a child, you are reachable at all times.

If something goes wrong

• Tell any facilitator. You do not need proof, and you do not need to be sure.
• You will not be asked to confront anyone or to explain yourself in front of others.
• We will act on it, including asking someone to leave.

Removal

We can ask anyone to leave at any time, for any reason, without debate at the door. Tickets are refunded. Repeated or serious violations mean not being invited back.

Questions about any of this? Email us before you book. We'd rather talk it through in advance.